Some pastors treat rest like it is a gold medal at the end of a ministry marathon, the prize you get only after you have preached, visited, emailed, texted, counselled, solved a crisis, cleaned up the youth room, and contemplated the meaning of life in the parking lot. In other words, we rest only when we are one sermon away from burning toast instead of burning bright.
The problem, of course, is that God never treated rest like a treat. He baked it right into the recipe for being human. It was never meant to be the finish line; it was meant to be part of the rhythm.
Genesis tells us that God rested on the seventh day.
Not because He was tired. Not because the angels had worn Him out with questions. He rested because He was modelling the kind of life that actually works. From the very beginning, God wove rest into the fabric of creation. If the Creator of the universe practiced rest, then His pastors probably should not act like rest is optional, or worse, sinful.
And then you get to the Sabbath command.
It sits right there with the big ones. No idols, no adultery, take a nap. God does not say, “Rest if you earned it.” He says, “Rest because you exist.” It is a gift, not a gold star.
Then Jesus comes along in the New Testament and, frankly, He doubles down. Jesus rested often and unapologetically. He took off to lonely places to pray. He napped in boats. He ate long meals. He withdrew from the crowds even when people had legitimate needs. Jesus, the most productive human in history, had a rhythm that would make most pastors feel guilty. But He was not guilty, He was healthy.
If the Son of God can say no, step away, sleep through a storm, and take time to breathe, then introverted pastors certainly can too. Rest is not laziness. Rest is obedience. It is humility. It is admitting we are not God, we are not infinite, and no amount of caffeine can magically make us omnipresent.
For introverted pastors, this matters even more. We recharge differently. We burn out differently. And we recover differently. When we treat rest like a bonus instead of a baseline, we get worn thin, sharp around the edges, emotionally brittle, and spiritually foggy. That is when even good ministry starts feeling like punishment.
So here is the truth you already know but probably hate to admit:
Rest is not a reward for surviving your week.
Rest is a requirement for serving your King.
Build it into your rhythm. Schedule it like a meeting you refuse to cancel. Guard it like you guard your preaching time. Let Sabbath be Sabbath again, not an afterthought squeezed between two ministry emergencies.
Rest is not a reward. It is a reminder.
A reminder that God is God, and we are not.
A reminder that we serve from fullness, not exhaustion.
A reminder that the Shepherd leads us beside still waters, not into endless hustle.
And if anyone asks why you are resting, just smile and say what Jesus said, “The Sabbath was made for people.” Then go take your nap with a clean conscience.
